#MuseNotAmuse
Our public discussion has become one mean bullying contest. Let see what qualifies.
Is it better that one does an action or agree with you, because they want to?
Because of sound reason, and truth.
Or better that they are obligated/forced (bullied).
Force (unjust)= Mockery/ridicule, lying, name calling, value/emotional labeling(stereotypeing), profanity-(verbal, print, &visual), law, and violence.
Just force is applied to address a wrong. But lying is never just, because it takes away the hearers ability to make a rational decision.
An issue needing unjust force. Can indicate a lack on the part of the person pursuing it’s acceptance. Or the validity of the issue/cause.
And for me first and foremost.
If you cannot debate/discuss from a polite stance. It indicates a weakness of some sort.
Rudeness always shows that you are arguing desperately from a point of weakness.
Consider.
Ad hominem (Latin for “to the man” or “to the person”), short for argumentum ad hominem, is a logical fallacy ( fallacy=false belief or argument) in which an argument is rebutted by attacking the character, motive, or other attribute of the person making the argument, or persons associated with the argument, rather than attacking the substance of the argument itself.
What is the best way for the presentation of arguments on any issue.
As such the presentation needs to contain much as possible of the following.
Hard evidence.
Knowledge.
Plan of action.
Why it is the best way.
Personal interest.
If you do not have those on your side.
Then admit that you are wasting time. You will convince no one.
One last thing to consider.
Remember. Hurt people hurt other people. They feel in control and in a safe place when they are doing something that they’ve seen accomplish dominance. Sometimes you can help them break the cycle. By just asking them if their attempt to hurt is from someone hurting them. They might not admit it. But it may give them the train of thought needed.
Be blessed.
